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- Don't sweat the small stuff.
- Make peace with perfection.
- Let go of the idea that gentle, relaxed people can't be super achievers.
- Be aware of the snowball effect of your thinking.
- Develop your compassion.
- Remind yourself that when you die your "In Basket" won't be empty.
- Don't interrupt others or finish their sentences.
- Do something nice for someone else and don't tell anyone else.
- Let others have the glory.
- Learn to live in the present moment.
- Imagine that everyone else is enlightened except you.
- Let others be "right" most of the times.
- Become more patient.
- Create "Patience Practice Periods".
- Be the first one to act loving or reach out.
- Ask yourself the question "WILL THIS MATTER A YEAR FROM NOW?
- Surrender to the fact that life isn't fair.
- Allow yourself to be bored.
- Lower your tolerance to stress.
- Once a week, write a heartfelt letter.
- Imagine yourself at your own funeral.
- Repeat to yourself "Life isn't an emergency".
- Experiment with your "Back Burner".
- Spend a moment everyday thinking about someone to thank.
- Smile at strangers, Look into their eyes and say hello.
- Set aside quiet time, everyday.
- Imagine the people in your life as tiny infants and as one-hundred-year-old adults.
- Seek first to understand.
- Become a better listener.
- Choose your battles wisely.
- Become aware of your moods and don't allow yourself to be fooled by the low ones.
- Life is a test. It's only a test.
- Praise and blame are all the same.
- Practice random acts of kindness.
- Look beyond behaviour.
- See the innocence.
- Choose being kind over being right.
- Tell three people (today) how much you love them.
- Practice humility.
- When in doubt about whose turn it is to take out the trash, go ahead and take it out.
- Avoid weatherproofing.
- Spend a moment, everyday, thinking about someone to love.
- Become an Anthropologist.
- Understand separate realities.
- Develop your own helping rituals.
- Everyday, tell at least one person something you like, admire or appreciate about them.
- Argue for your limitations and they are yours.
- Remember that everything has God's fingerprints on it.
- Resist the urge to criticise.
- Write down your five most stubborn positions and see if you can soften them.
- Just for fun, agree with criticism directed toward you (then watch it go).
- Search for the grain of truth in other opinions.
- See the glass as already broken (and everything else).
- Understand the statement, "WHEREVER YOU GO, THERE YOU ARE".
- Breathe before you speak.
- Be grateful when you're feeling good and graceful when you're feeling bad.
- Become a less aggressive driver.
- Relax.
- Adopt a child through the mail.
- Turn your melodrama into mellow-drama.
- Read articles and books with entirely different points of view from your own and try to learn something.
- Do one thing at a time.
- Count to ten.
- Practice being the "EYE IN THE STORM".
- Be flexible with changes in your plans.
- Think of what you have instead of what you want.
- Practice ignoring your negative thoughts.
- Be willing to learn from friends and family.
- Be happy where you are.
- Remember you become what you practice most.
- Quiet the mind!
- Take up Yoga.
- Make service an integral part of your life.
- Do a favour and don't ask for, or expect, one in return.
- Think of your problems as potential teachers.
- Get comfortable not knowing.
- Acknowledge the totality of your being.
- Cut yourself some slack!
- Stop blaming others.
- Become an early riser.
- When trying to be helpful, focus on little stuff.
- Remember, one hundred years from now, all new people.
- Lighten up.
- Nurture a plant.
- Transform your relationship to your problems.
- The next time you find yourself in an argument, rather than defend your position, see if you can see the other point of view first.
- Redefine a "MEANINGFUL ACCOMPLISHMENT".
- Listen to your feelings ( they are trying to tell you something).
- If someone throws you the ball, you don't have to catch it.
- One more passing show.
- Fill your life with love.
- Realise the power of your own thoughts.
- Give up on the idea that "more is better".
- Keep asking yourself "what's really important".
- Trust your intuitive heart.
- Be open to "What is".
- MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS.
- Look for the Extraordinary in the ordinary.
- Schedule time for your inner work.
- LIVE THIS DAY AS IF IT WERE YOUR LAST. IT MIGHT BE.
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